Saturday, December 4, 2021

Love, Save The Empty

 


    There was a time when I planned to only look for a girlfriend when I’m mature enough to get married. There was a time when I though a girlfriend would only be a distraction to what I want to achieve in my life. And like any other plans in life, they rarely go exactly as planned. But in this case, it went very much better than anyone could have planned.

 

There was this moment, at the hallway of our faculty, 10 years ago, that I told this one girl that I would only enter a relationship if I knew or hope that she would be my wife someday. I told the girl if by god’s will it was not meant to be; I would still want her in my life because that was how special she was to me. Some would call it naïve but that was how sure I was of what she meant to me and will mean to me. Fast forward 10 years, she is now my wife and though the journey was long and full of obstacles, my belief that she was the one never wavered. You were the one friend that has always been there for me and one I simply can’t live without. All my life, I thought it’d be hard to find the one till I found you, and I find it bittersweet, because you gave me something to lose.

 

There was a time when I prayed to god on the way I wanted to meet my future wife. I prayed that I would fall in love to a friend. A friend that understands me and supports me. I didn’t like the idea of chasing a girl because I was afraid the excitement will fade as the chasing ends. God rarely answers my prayer exactly how I want it. God gave me you, a friend whom I got close with over time. A friend I never knew I needed. A friend whom till today I never knew the exact moment I fell in love with. That was how natural it was and I wouldn’t want it any other way. I fell in love with you mind, heart and soul while we were friends and was convinced that you were the one after getting to know you better, and I have never looked back ever since. Looking at how beautiful you are on the outside as well as on the inside made me realise how lucky of a person I am to have you in my life.

 



There was a time when my studies were a bit astray. There was a time when I though having a girlfriend would make me astray even further. Little did I know it was totally the other way around. You helped me in my studies more than you know. I was so motivated to study and succeed because of you and for you. You were my motivation, and forever will be. I simply could not imagine finishing ACCA as fast as I did without you every step of the way. Before you I only thought of being successful first before having a girlfriend but you made me realise success is nothing if we don’t have anyone to share it with. And there is no one person I want to share any moments with other than you. You have always pushed me hard and supported me in every decision I made, even when it didn’t suit you. You were there during the hard times and the one person I want to celebrate with during the good times.

 




            There was another prayer of mine that was directly answered too. One that no one knows till today, not even you. I actually prayed for a long-distanced relationship. Crazy I know. I prayed for it because I saw it as an ultimate test of how strong a relationship is. And there you were, with a job offer in Qatar. Devastated would be an understatement. Praying for it was a constant regret. But god is the best planner of them all. We were both on our own separate and challenging journeys. There were a lot of hard times, no doubt, but I could always see myself being with you at the end of it all. Never once I have doubted that you are the one for me. Even in the distance, you were there for me when I needed you, and you supported me in any way you could even when you didn’t need to.  

 

An inspiration. That’s what you are to me and to many others. You always strive for better and I want to be a better person every day for you. It’s clear that you inspire people around you and whoever who knows you. They either want to be you or want to do better because of you. And here I am, actually have you in my life and now, forever. And every day I feel lucky that you are in my life. There are days, I wake up, and I pinch myself, you’re with me and not someone else. And I’m scared, yeah, I’m still afraid, that it’s all a dream. Because you still look so perfect as days go by. Even the worse ones, you make me smile. I’d stop the world if it gave us time.

 

10 years. That’s how long we’ve known each other. 10 years of getting to know each other. And that understanding of each other transcends and goes beyond love. No one understands me better than you do. No one comes even near you. There is no one I look up to and want to impress but you, even after all these years. There is no one as kind-hearted as you. There is no one who values friendship and wants to cherish it more than you. You are the direct opposite of me, yet you complement me ever so well. You literally complete me. And I mean every word of it. 10 years. Looks like we made it, look how far we’ve come my baby. We might’ve took the long way, but we knew we’d get there someday. And we have J

 



By now, I should already be your husband. Would be weird if I post this and I’m not. After 10 years, I could finally call you my wife. We have gone through so much together and there will be more and tougher challenges ahead. As always, I have never promised you anything other than to try my best. You deserve a lot in life, and I will do my utmost best to give all you deserve in this life. I will do my best to take care of you in every way possible. I will do my utmost best to give you the unconditional support that you have given me. I will try my best to make you happy and be there for you when you are sad. I will be there when you need me and every time that counts. I am not perfect, but I will be the best version of myself for you whenever I can. I hope I have made you feel as grateful to have me in your life, as much as you have made me. And I hope I can continue to make you feel happy to have me till we grow old. You are my first love and my last. Love you, always and forever.

 





10 years and counting.

2011-2021

20.11.2021 ß Nikah date in case it’s not obvious enough

 

 


Thanks to those who were there and helped throughout our journey. Thank you to those who helped for the wedding ceremonies. You know who you are. Pray that all will go well in this next adventure of ours. Godspeed

Friday, June 11, 2021

A Personal Touch

 

Every time I write something here; I would usually tell myself that it’s to remind me of the reasons for the decisions I’ve made or the lessons I’ve learned. In actual truth, I want it to be more than that. I wish for my writings to be able to touch at least a single soul and hopefully, change his/her life for the better.

I’ve never said it out loud or write about it for that matter. I always mask it under the second reason of why I write, because I don’t think I could actually touch anyone’s life. Truth is, I have a low self-esteem, which is another issue I never said out loud nor write about. I will now.

My low self-esteem is the reason why I want to touch people’s lives. I wished that someone had touched my life and gave me the confidence I needed. I wished there were people who told me that it’s okay to fall, it’s okay not to meet people’s expectation of you, and the most important thing, to help me actually believe in myself.



      I try to live a life full of empathy. I know what is it like to be the loser, not being the brightest amongst your peers, physically weak or even being the dorkiest. In my head I will always be those things and forever will. But there are moments, moments of inspiration and triumph over those feelings and those moments are the ones I try to write it here so that it can last longer than it does in real life. And those moments are a step, it might not be a big step, but it’s still a step. I hope one day with these steps, I could finally be really out of my own shadow. And trying to live a life of empathy, makes me want to help those who are living in their own shadows as well, to take that step with me. Because nothing is better than knowing there are people there for you, to help you and for you to help and overcome the hurdles together.

 

Like all previous posts of mine, I like to reminisce the past a bit and hope that if my stories have any resemblance to your life, it allows me to connect to you better. It will tell that you are not alone in this, and tells me that I am not alone too.

 

      Back in high school I was in the English debating team. Truth be told, I always felt inferior to my teammates. No one knew this, not my teammates or even my coaches. My English was clearly lacking by the sheer amount of lectures I got on grammar. I can’t give a speech using English spontaneously without writing it down, so I always ended up looking like I’m reading my texts. When discussing, everyone else would speak in English as if it’s their first language. I had to construct sentences in my head first before even speaking. And being in an English debating team somehow makes people expect English is an easy thing. It wasn’t, at least for me.

 

If you’ve read Invictus 1, you’d know that I didn’t do particularly well in my high school final exam. My English Debate teammates all got straight As. My mum didn’t expect me to but she did expect me to get more As than I actually got. If you read my post after that one you’d also know the sheer amount of sacrifices I had to make to pass through university. It was all due to the failures of high-school that was still haunting me. I was too afraid to fail that I opted out of social life and made study my priority. Then working at a company with multiracial colleagues, means English is the main communication language. Again my self-esteem was low and at the same time there were certain level of expectation from me just by the sheer fact that I made it that far. Everyone thought I was shy or timid, and as much I am still those two, it was more because I was afraid to speak English with them, it’s bad enough you are new to the work and don’t quite understand the work, it feels even worse not being able to communicate properly.

 

There are two things that I was struggling with in the stories I just told. The internal and external struggle. Internal, being the constant battle between me and myself on what I’m capable of, my low self-esteem and my lack confidence. The external struggle being the expectations people put on you, be it from those who are close to you or even the society in general. I hope I’m not the only one who is struggling with those two almost every single day of my life.

 






      The pressure is real. There are days I couldn’t sleep. There are days I woke up sweating. Don’t get me started on the things that went through my mind while I was drowning at work. I was lucky enough to have people who I could turn to, to clear my head even just for a little while. To have a reset, to ask for help with whatever that is on my plate. I have yet to find a cure, it has always been a reset. There were moments of enlightenment that kept me positive for a longer period and I wrote those enlightenments in my blog. And if you check, there are only 3 in the past decade or so. I always hoped that anyone facing similar issues could take note of my moment of enlightenment and help them overcome their struggles too, even for a short moment. If it didn’t help, I hope that they have a reset button too, people they could go to, to release some of the pressure and have the will to fight another day. If you don’t have one, find one because know that there are a lot of people struggling in this world and those who are struggling would want to help each other or at least listen because we know what is it like to be in the situation. I hope I have at least been a good listener to those around me or even to whoever that have reached out to me. Treat people the way you want them to treat you. Lend your ears to those in need and one day they will lend theirs to you. Believe that despite all the negativity in the world, there are positives and cling on to it.

 

I’ll be honest and admit that my background isn’t the worst. I come from a middle class family, went to a good school, actually won a number of debating competitions, managed to pass university with a relatively flying colours and actually went to work at a top-tier auditing firm. The reason why I’m telling you this is because despite the fact that my life would be considered as a success to some, the internal and external pressure still haunt me and perhaps may even haunt me more than it would haunt those with less fortunate life. It’s a mental thing and it affects anyone regardless of your social status, your background or anything for that matter.

 

As I’m writing this, it has just come to my realisation that this post relates to the mental health issues everyone has been talking about. And as much as I hate to admit it, I just realised I might just have it to. This makes me wonder, who else has it too and is just too afraid to admit it. We have heard news of successful individuals or even celebrities who had these issues and some even opted out of life. We have heard those who are poor doing just the same. We’ve seen people who smile and crack jokes in public but cry in private. In fact, some of us are those people, and I’ll admit here too that I am guilty of that. I have friends who are the funniest, the happiest go lucky person I’ve met, came to me in private and tell me about their problems. One thing is to know that anyone could have it and another is to know not to judge anyone about it. Be it to judge when someone has one, or even worse, is to judge that someone shouldn’t have it. It’s easy not to judge when someone has it. But to always assume that whoever, seem to be successful or happy, not to have it, is even worse, because you never know when that someone actually needs you, and needs you to understand and listen.

 






      In 2019 I made a conscious decision to quit my audit job. With no job offer. My interest of the job just doesn’t quite coincide with mine. With the effort, sacrifices and the toll it had on me, it was just not worth it anymore. Some see it as quitting, failing at fulfilling your career. Some see it as triumph, the will to move on from what isn’t for you despite the reward it grants. Either way, it’s an expectation needed to be filled. One is to prove that it wasn’t quitting or failure and the other is to live up to the expectation that it was a right decision, that things would / should only go upwards from there. Both are external expectations. Heavy expectations. Shouldn’t I just ignore them? Easier said than done especially when those expectations are from those who are really close to you. I keep a close circle to limit those expectations and yet, it still feels so heavy. Imagine those of a bigger circle. Or is it just me? How do you feel about people’s expectation of you? Have you ever been in a situation that nothing you do would please everyone?

 

In the year 2020, a restaurant that I have heavily invested in was finally opened after months of planning. It was a big first step in proving that my decision to quit my job, was a good one. Two days after it was opened, the government declared a national lockdown due to COVID-19, and it has been in a lockdown ever since. The first big step, when you thought you can see some light, life just knocks you down to the deep end of the black hole. I was helpless, clueless, frustrated and of course, depressed. There was nothing I could do. A huge sum of my savings was there. I had no job, that was the only thing I had.

 

Fulfilling any expectation was out of the window. Again my decisions were questioned, both by external parties and even myself. And that was all I could do. Again and again you question yourself, spiraling in a deeper hole as I think where I had ended up and how further deep I could go in this black hole. There was no end to it because we were confined in our house, nothing much could be done. I was unable to speak to anyone because I was ashamed of myself, I can’t bear telling anyone how in bad shape I was and having people look at me with pity or even disappointment. I rarely show my low self-esteem, or how weak or vulnerable I am, but at that stage, I can’t even fake it anymore. I was afraid I could see it in their face of what they think of me, and all the bad things I thought of myself is also what they would think of me, despite whatever they say, or even worse, if they just brush it off. I secluded myself, and all those negative thoughts just keep on coming.

 

There are times that we are in control of what happen around us, there are times we just don’t. It’s either there is literally nothing we could do, or our brain simply just can’t muster anything that could be done. Either way, it has the same outcome. Sometimes people just don’t realise that when someone isn’t doing anything, it’s not because they don’t want to, but it’s because they can’t for whatever limitations they have. Not everyone is smart, not everyone has the money, not everyone has a supporting environment, not everyone was given a chance, not everyone was born confident, not everyone has a parent, not everyone has a good mental health.

 



            It seems that the world we live in right now, everyone is trying to find someone else’s fault, what is their weakness, what are they lacking, what can go wrong, why does someone even exist and the digging goes a long way to the pettiest of things, all without thinking of the consequence of things. A lonely person who thinks they have no reason to live and then being confirmed or told the same thing by the society, will just opt out of life. A poor person who wants to try to have a good life but being told he will never, might just give up trying. A teacher who tries her best to teach her students in English, but is being told her English is so bad, might just stop teaching all together.

 

Most people know their own weakness, they don’t need to be told again what are their weakness, they need help to improve. Why are we as a society so adamant that bringing people down is the only way to bring us up. All of us have a weakness, if we help each other out, we could all bring ourselves up without bringing anyone down. Perhaps it feels good to bring people down, but it is certainly not being the receiving end. Karma is indeed a bitch. Life is like a wheel, sometimes you’re up, sometimes you’re down. It’s about time we break the wheel and help everyone when they are down so that we could all move forward rather than being stuck in a cycle of despair.

 

              I am not out of my shadow just yet. Nowhere near it. At any moment or day, depression might just hit me out of nowhere. A heavy one or even a mild one, it’s still something I wouldn’t want even on my enemy to have. All my other posts have ended on a positive note, a solution or even a positive reminder. Don’t give up, believe in yourself, have faith, take that leap, push yourself, go through that struggle. I have said all that. I’m not going to say it again here, here, is where I say it’s never easy and it might never will be. Here, what I will say is that despite all that, it is okay, not to be okay. It’s okay to be vulnerable. It’s okay to forgo today, to live another day. It’s normal, you are not alone. Do what you need to do, to fight another day.

 

              This time, I’ll be honest and say this post is not about a reminder to myself of better days or as a motivation for me as I survive a nightmare. I have yet to survive this, I hope I will and perhaps I will write about it when I do. This post is perhaps a reflection of my life that it does not always end on a positive, and that is life and I won’t hide it. It’s a personal touch. A real touch of life. I do, however have a purpose for this post. More of a hope than a purpose. I’m hoping that my post would give some ease to those who are going through tough times, that they are not alone. A lot of us are going through this and knowing we are not alone, and we should talk about it to connect to others in the same storm and perhaps help each other out. If there is no one you can count on, there’s always a way to reach out to me.




      I’m also hoping that people realise mental health is a real thing and it’s frightening. People should realise this and be the best version of themselves and avoid causing others having a mental issue. Have empathy, don’t judge, help those in need, do whatever you can to make people happy, no matter how small it is. Have empathy, be the better person always, be kind even when others don’t. Be more understanding, know that we can never be in anyone’s shoes and know what they are going through. My friend argued with me that it’s impossible to get the society to be understanding and always have empathy first before hatred or judgement, but in the end he agreed that it all starts with one. One step, one person. If I could influence him, it would already be a better place than it was yesterday. If he can influence another and then another. It will create a chain of a better tomorrow. It’s not an overnight thing, but every step is worth something. So my hope is that this post will at least influence one person to have more empathy, to acknowledge mental health is an issue faced by a lot of people and it can’t be seen so you should always avoid contributing to that issue. You might just save a life.

 

I am not out of the shadow, but deep inside, I still have hope that I cling on to. Take constant effort to hold on to that hope. Thank you to those who helped, you know who you are. Hopefully I have helped you the way you have helped me. Have hope, stay safe and know that there is always someone there for you. Peace.



  As I post this, my country is currently in our 3rd lockdown. An extension of it was just announced. It has been one hell of a roller coaster ride. Too many uncertainties from both the virus as well as the people in charge of combating this pandemic. We are left in the dark on any exit strategies as well as any financial help. Uncertainties creates anxieties. And anxieties , fatigue , and morale amongst other things are at an all time high. The light at the end of the tunnel seems to go further away as time passes by. Cash are flowing out fast and cash coming in is almost non-existent. Helpless. I could only pray and hope of a better tomorrow. And that I survive this. We survive this. Together. Hopefully. Godspeed. 

Tuesday, October 27, 2020

Invictus II : Leap of Faith



   Each of us live in a different reality. A reality conjured by our families, friends, surroundings and mainly, ourselves. What we take in or believe in, from what’s happening around us, shapes our reality and expectations. Our own conjured reality and expectation can be both a boon or a bane.


   Every now and then, we are faced with decisions that would shape the rest of our lives. And those decisions are normally bound by the reality and expectations that we live in. Our decisions would be aligned to what we have been taught to be the ‘right’ decision. The ‘right’ decision, most of the time, gravitates towards what our reality requires from us. Intelligence is measured by how many A(s) you get. Working in a bank or being a doctor/lawyer/engineer means you have a better career than others. Getting married means your life is complete and stable. Is your reality the same as mine? We always assume that most people live in the same reality as us, being taught the same thing, believe in the same facts. Little did we realise sometimes, we are actually the minority.

   The ‘right’ decisions could easily be the ‘wrong’ decisions for those who live in a different reality and vice versa. Have we ever really challenged the reality and expectations that we live in? Have you ever forced someone to believe your reality or be forced to believe theirs? What makes our reality better than others? Have you ever pondered on those questions? I surely did and it wasn’t exactly easy to answer. 

   I had the opportunity to come across those life changing decisions. I made a huge decision after failing (at least in my reality) my final high school exam. I made another one after finishing ACCA at the age of 22. The latest one might probably be when I decided to resign after 4 years in EY and just a few months away from becoming a manager. Did I ever regret those decisions? There were moments where I did, but as of now I’ve learned to live with it. Have I wondered if I had a different reality and expectations, would I have made different decisions and be better off? All the damn time. (I’ll write in more detail about those decisions in a bit)

   Most of us long for comfort. The comfort of making an easy decision. The decision that simply can’t go wrong. But it WILL go wrong. One way or another. There WILL be hardship whether you like it or not. There WILL be obstacles that you need to go through. There will ALWAYS be people questioning your decisions. I promise you all of that. But truth of the matter is that no one would know which decision is the best for you. Not even you. Not without any hindsight. That is just how life is.



   So what do you do with that in mind? You challenge the reality that you live in. Challenge the expectation people have on you and the expectation you have on yourself. Explore all the possible decisions and never be bound by any sort of reality. And when you finally explored all possibilities and come up with a decision, no matter how crazy it seems or how unsure you are with the decision, take that leap of faith. Or even better, try out all the possibilities and see where you land. You don’t know where it will take you. So does any decision that you thought was safe. Nothing is certain. Might as well surprise yourself.



   My first big decision was when I decided to pursue the accounting professional exam, ACCA. I was horrible at accounting in my high-school days. Last in class with potentially no future in it. My close friends were flying abroad to continue their studies, while I stayed behind. None of them took accounting too despite being better than me at it. My mum had no idea what ACCA was and wanted me to take engineering to follow my dad’s footsteps. My dad insisted on how hard ACCA was and asked me to talk to others about it to gauge how tough it will be. Fast forward a few years, I was one of the first few to graduate from my batch and even faster than those who had way better prospects than me.



   My second big decision was to join EY. The so called Big 4 Accounting firm as an auditor. It was a straightforward decision at the time. Most who graduate from accounting would go into auditing because it’s the ‘right’ thing to do. And most who graduate from a professional qualification would aim to work in a Big 4 Firm. The decision led me to hell. I constantly thought of how stupid my decision was. Jaded, regret and lifeless. Those words describe perfectly the life I was in. Look how happy I was on my last day!



   So how do we avoid decisions that will make us regret? WE CAN’T. Or to make it less negative, we can’t always avoid regret. We are bound by regret. But we learn from them. We learn and we grow. The best thing about exploring decisions unbounded by reality and expectations and taking the leap of faith is that it can be anything you want it to be. Most importantly, success in life is not exactly measured by what we have achieved. It is measured of how much we have progressed. Learning from pain and suffering is progress. Learning from regret is progress. Making mistakes and learning from them is progress. We are not the same person we were before we went through all of life's different possibilities. And that is progress. My two big decisions turned out to be the exact opposite of what my reality thought it would be. ACCA went way better than what people thought it would be. Big 4 was suppose to be a straight forward decision but it turns out to be one hell of a ride.
    
   Our destination/aim in life is important. But the journey is even more important as it would shape who we would be once we reach our destination. And the kind of journey we take would determine how much we have progressed in our life. How much have you progressed?

   I asked myself, why is progress so important. In the same breath, I asked what do I actually want in life. Do you know what you actually want in life? I have come to the realisation that I don’t actually know what I want in life or even what kind of person do I want to be. That is where the first question actually comes into the picture. Progress, or exploring life and learning about all the different realities and possibilities help you to answer the question of who you are and what do you want in life. Progress in life, is a journey of discovering oneself.

   Life is a constant revelation of who you are as a person. The more you progress in life, the more you know yourself. The more you explore, the more you know what you like and dislike. The more struggles and challenges you face, the stronger you become. Life is a constant journey of character building. The more a character faces in life, the more the character knows what needs to be done next and eventually, how to end it. You are a character in your own book, you decide how interesting the book is. The ending is just the finale, what makes readers continue reading till the end is equally if not more important than the ending itself. Will anyone read a book about you?

   In hindsight I should give credit to my audit life to where I am today. In hindsight it contributed to the person I am today. The hardship did build my character. The challenges prepared me on how hard life could be. It’s a steep learning curve as the bosses would say. Years of character building compressed in a short space of time. It puts your character ahead of the others. In all honesty, it’s not the audit experience that made me resign, it’s the thought that, that reality is no longer the reality I want to live in or fight for. The knowledge that there are other realities out there prompted me to resign. Without a job. That was another big decision of mine.



Exploring all the possibilities and realities was key. The decision of what’s next would be mine. Not bounded what my parents or those around me expect out of me. I took a leap of faith. Went on a journey no one expected me to take. People questioned my decision, even those who are close to me. It’s totally out of my comfort zone. It’s not stable let alone certain. But life is not certain and stable. If I didn’t take that leap, I would have not known what would I become. Regret of the unknown is worse than regret of the known. I could still take the positives from my experience in audit. Living a life of "what if", is something that might just haunt me for the rest of my life.


It’s called a leap of faith for a reason. There are just things in life, god/religion, as the origin of the idiom, that simply can’t be understood through science or logic. Life, and what the future holds goes beyond the understanding of humankind. One could only understand god through faith alone. But that faith or belief in something could bring you far. In the first Invictus I spoke of how the power of believing in your aim can bring you far in life. This one I’m writing on how we should challenge and explore your aim / reality so that we go beyond the reality that was given to us as that is the way for us to grow and learn that life can be full of meaning, different meanings.

The history of faith is that it has always changed over time to adapt to the realities of the human world. Realities have change and will change. So could yours. All the teachings of any faith asks you to do good and be good to the best of your abilities. Most if not all teachings ask you to seek knowledge and strive to be better than you were. So explore all the knowledge of this world within the different realities they are kept. Take that leap of faith, go all the way and do the best of your abilities to learn as much as possible and at the same time leaning about yourself. Learn things about yourself that you never knew. 







Learning is a responsibility. It's a responsibility to better yourself, for your parents, your families, your country and everyone around you. It's a Fardhu Kifayah. And if you don't care about any of those, you definitely have to do it for yourself. Why? Because you deserve better. You have gone through so much in life and thus you should get more from life. If you don't think you deserve better, it could also mean you haven't done enough in life. Its one to be grateful, its another to actually strive for a better life and not get stuck in a single reality and be limited of the knowledge that life has to offer.

To those who are afraid, know this, even when you feel that you have failed, you have gained invaluable knowledge about yourself and life. And if that is still not enough, if i may quote my previous post, "know that god will reward you with what is due of your effort as god too ask that you seek knowledge to better yourself".  

Once exploring different realities and taking that leap of faith to go on that journey becomes a second nature to you, you actually learned the best knowledge in life, which is to BELIEVE IN YOURSELF in anything that you do. You set what the next chapter holds, and how it will end one day. You Are the Master of Your Fate, You Are the Captain of Your Soul.



“The greatest challenge in life is discovering who you are. The second greatest is being happy with what you find.” 
– Auliq Ice

“People live their lives bound by what they see as ‘right’ and ‘true’.  That’s what they call ‘reality’. However, ‘right’ and ‘true’ are nothing but vague terms. Their reality could turn out to be an illusion. Everyone is living by their own assumptions.” 
- Uchiha Itachi

“This is space. It does not cooperate. At some point, everything is going to go south. And you are going to say, ‘this is it, this is how I end’. Now you can either accept that or you can get to work. That is all. You just begin. You do the math. You solve one problem then you solve the next one. And then the next. And if you solve enough problems, you get to go home.” 
– Mark Watney, The Martian 

Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.

In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.

Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds and shall find me unafraid.

It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.

                               - William Ernest Henley (1849–1903)  -

I am currently now exploring different things in life. The main journey now is that I’m currently in the line of doing business and exploring different callings of this life. I have no idea where it will take me or if it’s even a good decision at the end of the day. All I know is that this is something that the old me could only have think of and not do. Lets see where it takes me and do pray that this is all for the best. 







Times are hard as I post this. Challenges and obstacles are coming hard and fast. Coronavirus hit everyone's lives, me included, and at the time I was just starting my new journey. Hopefully, the future me who reads this back could laugh and be proud that he manages to get past through this. And hopefully whoever else that reads this in the future would be proud of him/herself too. Godspeed.

- Invictus Maneo -